Pelajaran Hidup

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. 
All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.


I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.


I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.


I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.


I've learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you'd better know something.


I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.


I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it.


I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.


I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it's to think.


I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. 
It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.

I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, 
but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. 
Same goes for true love!!

I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides even when 
I don't want to.

I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I've learned that if you don't want to forget something, just forgive then.

I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I've learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.

I've learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.

I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.

I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.

I've learned that although the word "love" can have many different meaning, it loses value when overly used